I’m a middle-aged (35) reformed AFC living in London. I read ‘The Game’ in January and the rest has been what you see here, before you, as my humble blog.

This blog isn’t meant as a way for me to show off. It’s primary goal is to help me iron my thoughts out. I’d love it if it could be of some help to someone else who is in a similar situation and planning to undergo the same journey.


  1. Elbow
    May 8, 2010 at 12:43 am

    Dude, I’m loving this. I read Secret_PUA’s blog about doing 200 approaches in a month and felt inspired.

    I’ve read the theory but it’s only seeing the hidden camera stuff and reading blogs like this that make it seem tangible.

    Keep up the good work

    • bhodisatta
      May 8, 2010 at 11:00 am

      Thanks for the comment. It certainly can be tangible if you get out there and do it. Any chance of a link to the other blog? I can’t find it. ps. if you’re in London and want to sarge sometime let me know.

  2. Elbow
    May 10, 2010 at 12:10 am

    Here’s the link: http://secretpua.blog.co.uk. It’s well written and he has some good insights.

    You asked about online dating in a previous post. Don’t do it, major step backwards. You might meet someone, but you definitely won’t gain any skills, and if it doesn’t work out you’ll be back to square one. You sound like you’re making progress & don’t need the distraction.

    I am in London by the way and would be up for sarging. Send me a pm and we can chat further

  3. Darroux
    May 19, 2010 at 2:50 pm

    Great blog. Looks like I have somewhere else to visit now secretpua has decided to stop posting.
    Keep up the good work.

  4. Will ( AKA Agape)
    June 21, 2010 at 4:52 pm

    Hey Buddy

    Its Will from LSS (covent garden yesterday). Like the blog man.

    We should sarge soon!

  5. Dark Knight
    October 3, 2010 at 3:35 am


    Love your review of the Ross Jeffries workshop.

    I have a lot of NLP background and can write a guest post or two on your blog if you want analyzing Ross’s material from an NLP perspective.(not trying to sell anything!)

    PS: Do cookies have to be on for comments to work?
    Do you moderate your comments?

    • bhodisatta
      October 5, 2010 at 8:24 pm

      Some comments go into an approvals queue. I dunno why. I approve everything though.
      Thanks for the offer. Not sure at present… been a bit RJ-centric on here recently.

    • January 11, 2011 at 9:54 pm

      His review was an utter pack of lies and smears. Here is Chocolate Daddy in his own words:


  6. January 11, 2011 at 9:54 pm

    Liar….explain this you pathological liar:


  7. newarrior3000
    February 17, 2011 at 1:32 pm

    Thailand rules, from what I have heard…Would love to connect with you directly..Cheers ! Dave

  8. paul
    May 19, 2011 at 3:11 am

    Hey – I’ve been reading your blog over the last few months. I’m across the pond – a semi-serious student of the pua world over the last few years. I’ve gotten a bit tired of the same “gurus” – most of the stuff is just recycled over and over . (The content is poor, but the concepts are good, that is what keeps me coming back). However you are a very good writer, fresh, honest and entertaining. So keep it up.

    Loved the Kenny Powers post – I always hated californication/DD character, and love eastbound and down. Just never made the pua – game – etc. connection between the two. Genius. Expand on it if you can.

    One criticism and one bit of praise. Criticism first. You are a great writer, but you should tone down or get rid of the mild racism, I’m not pc leftie freak, but “chink” etc – doesn’t fly. The alpha in you doesn’t care I know, but its the only thing that makes me not want to read your stuff and that’s too bad.

    But. if you are still reading – a big thank you for taking care of your Dad. I don’t know how advanced he is but I am sure he appreciates your being there for him. And it shows your heart.

    Anyway, thanks for the amusing posts, hope to read more.


    • bhodisatta
      May 19, 2011 at 2:22 pm

      Cheers. I believe the only bit of “racism” in the blog is “chink” and I’m not too bothered about that given that I have many good Chinese friends, almost married a Chinese girl (and thus almost had a mixed race kid), lived in China for three years, speak fluent Mandarin and totally, deeply understand Chinese culture, and have been subjected to years of outright racism by the mainland Chinese, ten times worse than anything I write here. Point taken, though. Hope you continue reading.

  9. July 24, 2013 at 11:12 am

    bhodisatta, what happend in 2011? how are you now?

  1. January 11, 2011 at 11:20 pm

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